Although your first name of Harlaroo has given you a deep, seeking nature, it has also caused you to be far too intense and highly strung. It is easier for you to write your thoughts rather than to express them verbally in personal contact with others. Feelings of self consciousness make it difficult for you to express yourself verbally. Being very sensitive and intuitive, you feel and sense the thoughts and desires of others without fully realizing how you are being affected by them. Your first name, Haidan, gives you a desire to please and a friendly nature that could draw you into the sales field. Although you desire to create harmony in your associations, you can be too candid in your expression, especially if you are challenged by others. Nevertheless, you are clever and have many wonderful ideas if you could just put them across to those who could further your interests. You appear quite confident outwardly, but you do suffer with lack of confidence at times and draw upon the support and encouragement of others. Being alone out in nature where you can think your own thoughts without interference from others would bring you peace of mind and thus alleviate, to some extent, the extreme tension that is so detrimental to your health and well being. Then you can be quietly stubborn and resist taking advice.