This characteristic could make you rather unpopular with your associates. For your interest to be retained you need to be mentally challenged; this was most evident when young and in school. You have a sensitive nature--sensitive to your environment and particularly sensitive to how your deeper and more serious interests are regarded by others. Your feelings are easily hurt and so, to protect yourself, you withdraw within the realm of your private thoughts. Although you are very knowledgeable and intelligent, you often find spontaneous verbal expression difficult. Your name of Harbinder creates a quick, clever mind readily capable of grasping and assimilating new ideas. Often you are drawn to the out of doors as a coping mechanism for bouts of loneliness and moods. Your first name of Harbinder creates a quick, clever mind capable of grasping and assimilating new ideas. Moods, which are your worst enemy, result. It is often only through writing that you open up and convey your deepest feelings and true appreciation for those you love.