Your first name of Harlems has given you a practical, logical, analytical approach to life and a great deal of patience. Because stability in your affairs is so important you are unlikely to gamble or take chances. " Others depend on you for your unflappable, logical, and reliable qualities. This name creates a deliberate and methodical way of thinking and speaking; it takes you time to learn but, once you have mastered a subject, you do not forget it. There is a tendency to be fussy or to spend too much time on little things that are inconsequential to the bigger picture. When you are interested in a project, you concentrate all your thoughts on it and do not appreciate being interrupted. Issues in close relationships could arise as you are inclined to be set in your opinions to the point of stubbornness. When working on a project you do not like to be interrupted. There is a seriousness to your nature which could cause you to worry over your responsibilities, especially when confronted with change and uncertainty. You are very systematic in all you do and do not like to see things out of order; however, there is a tendency for you to be too fussy.