As Harlington you have a great love of nature and the out-of-doors, and could have a desire to be in an occupation which takes you outdoors and involves you with the products of the earth. Conflict between your deep inner nature and your blunt outer nature does not make it easy for others to draw close to you, especially when you become withdrawn and moody. It is only out in nature that you find any degree of relaxation and peace. Contrary to your intent, you appear uncooperative, uncaring, and self-centred. Your secretive nature can make others feel insecure and undervalued, and lead to turmoil in close friendships. You have an awareness of your difficulty in establishing harmony in relationships and in showing affection and appreciation for those you value. You crave affection and understanding, but rarely find it as others do not understand you and accuse you of being cool and aloof. This name makes you reserved, sensitive, and craving love and understanding. Eyes, ears, or throat problems, sinus congestion, or headaches could result. The insecurity you experience from limited verbal expression and social ease results in a jealous possessiveness and suffering through frustration, repressed emotion, and self-consciousness.