Your first name of Harlowe makes you spontaneous and versatile, enjoying congenial association, appreciating the finer things of life, and loving to talk and debate. Because you like to get your own way, and have difficulty in seeing alternative points of view, others accuse you of obstinacy or self-centredness. As your independence and freedom are very important, you will seldom tolerate limitations. You could be inventive and ingenious in solving practical problems. New ideas and new projects motivate, but you have difficulty in following through if the novelty wears off. At times when your expressive urges seem to be bottled up, you experience stress and react to others critically instead of handling situations in a relaxed, cheerful manner. These tendencies could spoil long-term understanding and compatibility. Although you do not depend on others for encouragement, you respond to appreciation and enjoy being the centre of attention. Although you are naturally happy and generous, you fail to hold friendships because you are inclined to be too dogmatic, argumentative, or sarcastic. In an argument, you usually emerge the victor, but at a cost.