Your first name of Ijam creates a serious, thoughtful nature, shrewd, efficient, and business-minded. A tendency to be candid, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. Being relaxed and spontaneous in social or formal situations is sometimes challenging, as you often value time on your own more highly. Helping those in less fortunate circumstances is important to you. As you are staunch in friendship, you can be depended upon for guidance and assistance. You prefer a simple, uncomplicated life where you can be original and ingenious in expressing your creative talents. You are one to make your own decisions, and not be influenced by others. Your standards of quality and efficiency are high. Your positive manner and outlook can make others feel that you are imposing your will on them and even interfering in their affairs. In your personal relations with others, you are inclined to be rather serious, and not to see the humour others see, or to respond spontaneously.