Your first name of Lar-Hay gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. You have little resilience for handling tension or persevering in adverse circumstances. You invariably seek partnerships, for this name causes you to lack confidence in your abilities to be shrewd and to make quick judgments. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. Encouragement and assurance strengthen your resolve that you are making the best decisions. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse, but these promises are not always fulfilled. Procrastination is a weakness as you are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition.