Your name of Nicandor gives you a clever, analytical mind, and causes you to be studious and serious, drawn to the deeper secrets of life. A settled home environment is important to you, as are the opportunities to enjoy good music, literature, art, and drama. Although you are not overly expressive verbally, you could excel at literary and artistic pursuits. Others may misjudge your reserve as lack of interest or affection and, as a result, feel excluded and insecure. It takes a confident person to read from your quiet thoughtful gestures that he or she is held in high regard. You could earn the respect of others with your ability to remain calm and in control while facing challenging situations, even if internally you are experiencing turbulence. There could be misunderstandings in relationships because you feel deeply about those you love but are embarrassed to openly show your affections. As you are sensitive to unhappy or hostile situations, and reluctant to share your feelings and needs, personal conflict could make you withdrawn and overly serious or moody. Tensions due to responsibilities or discordant conditions in your home or business affairs may cause worry and mental turmoil. As it is not easy for you to share your deeper thoughts and ideals with others, you are inclined to choose the association of those few friends with whom you feel the most at ease and with whom you can enjoy companionship in a contemplative mood without feeling pressure for verbal communication.
