Your first name of Nicholai has created a deep, sensitive, refined nature with an intelligent mind and a keen appreciation of material values. Although you have a sensitive inner nature and a desire for affection and understanding, your dignified manner and reserve often give the impression that you are aloof and wishing to distance yourself. There is a tendency to be controlling both in business and in your personal life. You have good business judgment and would do well in a managerial position, as you have executive ability. Thus, you can experience loneliness. You have strong ideas on how you wish your affairs to be organized and you do not appreciate interference from others. In dealing with others, you have high expectations and, possibly, a sense of entitlement in your attitude. You work best in an independent capacity, where you are able to think problems out carefully before you act. When responsibilities become too much, to regain your composure, you seek an outlet in the outdoors or you retreat into your own private space. You find it difficult to express your true feelings, whether it be affection, appreciation, or tenderness, which play such an important part in creating a close bond within the family.
