Your first name of Oleander has given you the ability to handle people. It is often through the use of influential contacts, rather than hard work, that you further your ambitions. You are pleasant and diplomatic, and seem to sense how others feel. You can be subtle, but shrewd, in using your charm and likeable personality to manipulate people to do what you want. For this reason, you could do well in public relations work. While you could do well in certain positions of authority, you have a certain lack of initiative and a tendency to procrastinate. You feel that it is important to convey the impression that you are financially secure, and you place importance on your mode of dress, and on appearances generally. You desire a good life style and could be susceptible to taking the quick easy route to achieving your goals. However, your likeable personality sees you through most situations but when your emotional nature does not allow you to be strictly impersonal in your relationships, you could experience awkward, embarrassing entanglements. You take great care to reflect refinement in your manners and tastefulness in your dress and in your home and surroundings.