Your first name of Oxel gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You make friends easily but must guard against becoming involved in the affairs of others or being too easily led. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. This name makes it difficult for you to face issues. You dislike facing issues or witnessing hurt feelings. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences and to talk indiscriminately about others. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress.