Your first name of Phelome makes you a quick thinker, both philosophical and creative. To get what you want, at times you tend to use subtlety of meaning and rely on your way with words to influence others without their knowing. Desiring to be free from detail and monotony, you find it difficult to finish what you start if it does not hold your interest. You enjoy reading and the beauties of nature, experiencing peace and relaxation in outdoor activities. You try to avoid confrontation and strive to resolve differences by diplomacy. You are aware of your need for love, affection, and sympathy, and your attraction to those whose strengths you can rely on. Aggressive attitudes, harsh words, and friction between people make you uncomfortable and anxious. Self-consciousness may prevent you from feeling at ease in positions of impromptu expression. You will go out of your way to help others, and find it difficult to say "no" and mean it. Others impose on your generosity at times.