Your first name of Phethala has created a deep, sensitive, refined nature with an intelligent mind and a keen appreciation of material values. Although you appear calm and in control at all times, constant pressures and difficult decisions can cause you inner turmoil. Your sensitivity and reserve prevent people from coming close in friendship. You value material comforts and the finer things in life that a good standard of living allows. Good business judgment and your ability to think and plan carefully before you act could bring desired material accumulation and financial success. In dealing with others, you have high expectations and, possibly, a sense of entitlement in your attitude. In school, you could have been good at mathematics, accounting, science, computer programming, or any subject that required your full interest and attention. Others could perceive you as proud, and even unfriendly. You find it difficult to express your true feelings, whether it be affection, appreciation, or tenderness, which play such an important part in creating a close bond within the family. When responsibilities become too much, to regain your composure, you seek an outlet in the outdoors or you retreat into your own private space.
