Your first name of Philomen gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You dislike heavy manual work; as well, you are inclined to put plans off until forced to take action. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. Intuitive and impressionable, you are sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and responsive to affection and attention. In your work, you would gravitate to positions in sales, teaching, or some field where you deal with people but are not required to initiate action. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition. You find it difficult to be systematic in business and you dislike budgeting.
