Your first name of Phoebelyn is a dual influence: at times you can be extremely happy, expressive, full of fun, and good-natured; yet at other times you find congenial association impossible, being controlled by self-pity, moods, and depression. You enjoy debating ideas and you strive always to have the last word. You find it difficult to be practical and patient, preferring to act impulsively as the spirit moves you. If you could express only the constructive qualities and restrain the negative qualities of your nature, you would always be good company. These contrasting qualities make it difficult for people to understand you and can lead to friction in your personal life. This unpredictable quality makes it a challenge for others to understand you; you find it hard to understand yourself. You are happiest when pursuing a creative outlet, free from system and detail or any form of monotony or drudgery. You have a sensitive nature, tuning into the thoughts of others and feeling much more than you can interpret and understand. You find it difficult to be patient, practical, and systematic, preferring to act impulsively as the spirit moves you. The problem then would be uncontrollable thoughts, feelings, and reactions.
