The name of Shilling makes you very idealistic, sensitive, and inspirational. You respond readily to appeals for assistance and can end up being unrealistic and over-generous, neglecting your own needs and those of your dependents. Your feelings are so strong that you are inclined to build your life around certain individuals and become wrapped up in personal love rather than seeking into the deeper truths of life; thus you could suffer losses in your affections and shattered ideals. The qualities of this name demand that you serve humanitarian needs rather than a possessive personal relationship with an individual. Then there are extreme lows when you think the world is against you, and you become temperamental, hard to get along with, and inclined to express harsh words that you later regret. If these qualities are not understood and properly directed through music, art, or other creative expression, you could become jealous and possessive of those close to you. There are extreme highs in your nature when you are inspired, optimistic, kind, understanding, generous, and charming. You are generous and people are drawn to you because of your friendly and sympathetic nature. When you are inspired and feel happy, life seems so wonderful; but you can be just as depressed and unhappy as well, feeling as if everyone is against you. You lack system and order in your life and will often leave your own duties if someone calls upon you for assistance.
