Your name of Soper gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Being obliging and helpful to others in times of need may be at the neglect of your own duties. You relish being made a fuss of, yet you find it difficult to express your appreciation and to reciprocate with affection and words of endearment. It is sometimes difficult for you to muster the interest, initiative, and reasoning ability to concentrate and to think through complex concepts, especially in subjects that do not hold your interest, and you learn more through practical applications. Hence, you find it difficult to budget and plan. Your tendency to be candid, and at times abrupt, causes misunderstandings. It may be difficult to accept advice or be told what to do as you like to do things your own way, learning from your own experiences. You appear quite confident outwardly, but you do suffer with lack of confidence at times and draw upon the support and encouragement of others. Then you can be quietly stubborn and resist taking advice. You want to be more expressive, diplomatic, and easy-going, but you feel the limitation in your communication with others and it creates frustration within you.
