Your first name of Abay gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. Intuitive and impressionable, you are sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and responsive to affection and attention. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse, but these promises are not always fulfilled. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. You make friends easily but must guard against becoming involved in the affairs of others or being too easily led. In your work, you would gravitate to positions in sales, teaching, or some field where you deal with people but are not required to initiate action. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress.
