Your first name of Abdere has given you an expressive, diplomatic, and refined nature. Personal appearance is important to you. Although you do lack confidence in many ways, you have an air of poise and composure that leaves the impression you have everything under control. An understanding nature allows you to perceive the challenges facing people. You could be particularly successful at planning and managing social events or business meetings, although you are not a high-pressure person who could initiate and promote major projects; rather, you look for opportunities to make improvements in operations already underway. Many people would find it hard to believe you lack self-assurance at times. You appreciate the comfort that comes with financial success and look for opportunities for material gain by taking advantage of your personal contacts. As you do not have a robust nature and can tire easily, too much responsibility creates stress and confusion that can tend to make you indifferent to your obligations through lack of energy or the will to carry on. Through your diplomatic ways you are able to call on the assistance of others to avoid such matters. Your enjoyment of the pleasures and comforts of life create a challenge when it comes to self-discipline.