Your name of Abelhard gives you a clever, analytical mind, and causes you to be studious and serious, drawn to the deeper secrets of life. In the business world, your reserve and outward placidity command respect for your authority. However, in your personal life, this reserve and reticence are often mistaken for coldness and lack of feeling, with the result that others find it difficult to understand you. As you are sensitive to unhappy or hostile situations, and reluctant to share your feelings and needs, personal conflict could make you withdrawn and overly serious or moody. There could be misunderstandings in relationships because you feel deeply about those you love but are embarrassed to openly show your affections. The friends you choose to associate with have similar interests of a theoretical and contemplative nature. It takes a confident person to read from your quiet thoughtful gestures that he or she is held in high regard. Also, tensions can arise with those close to you because of your tendency to be secretive with your own thoughts and plans, yet at times interfering in the affairs of others. While your name gives you a clever, deep mind, you feel and sense much that you do not fully understand. As it is not easy for you to share your deeper thoughts and ideals with others, you are inclined to choose the association of those few friends with whom you feel the most at ease and with whom you can enjoy companionship in a contemplative mood without feeling pressure for verbal communication.
