Your first name of Abilard gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. You have little resilience for handling tension or persevering in adverse circumstances. In your work, you would gravitate to positions in sales, teaching, or some field where you deal with people but are not required to initiate action. There is a preference to avoid positions that would require you to make decisions when there is risk and uncertainty or that would demand concentration and close attention to detail. If a project requires too much hard work and effort, you seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, merging rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. You find it difficult to be systematic in business and you dislike budgeting. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition.
