Your name of Alani gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Although you desire to create harmony in your associations, you can be too candid in your expression, especially if you are challenged by others. Although you desire to create harmony with others, you can be obstinate and self-opinionated. You can be witty and appreciated for your sense of humour. It may be difficult to accept advice or be told what to do as you like to do things your own way, learning from your own experiences. You appear quite confident outwardly, but you do suffer with lack of confidence at times and draw upon the support and encouragement of others. You relish being made a fuss of, yet you find it difficult to express your appreciation and to reciprocate with affection and words of endearment. Hence, you find it difficult to budget and plan. Then you can be quietly stubborn and resist taking advice. You want to be more expressive, diplomatic, and easy-going, but you feel the limitation in your communication with others and it creates frustration within you.