Your name of Alian gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. As a result of your difficulty in coming to decisions, you often put off taking action until forced to do so. You relish being made a fuss of, yet you find it difficult to express your appreciation and to reciprocate with affection and words of endearment. Although you are assertive and independent, yet there are times when you rely upon the support and encouragement of others before making decisions and taking action. Although you desire to create harmony with others, you can be obstinate and self-opinionated. The support of others means a great deal, for you really do not like to stand alone. You could be drawn into a position of public service, where your straightforward advice could help others overcome challenging conditions in their lives. You are neither overly systematic nor thorough, and do not enjoy monotonous tasks or detailed bookwork. Then you can be quietly stubborn and resist taking advice. You want to be more expressive, diplomatic, and easy-going, but you feel the limitation in your communication with others and it creates frustration within you.
