The name of Alphondore makes you very idealistic, sensitive, and inspirational. You respond readily to appeals for assistance and can end up being unrealistic and over-generous, neglecting your own needs and those of your dependents. In reality, the emotional urges of this name are difficult to control. If you centre your whole world on that one person, not allowing freedom of thought or action, you could spoil happiness for yourself and that person. The qualities of this name demand that you serve humanitarian needs rather than a possessive personal relationship with an individual. Your feelings are so strong that you are inclined to build your life around certain individuals and become wrapped up in personal love rather than seeking into the deeper truths of life; thus you could suffer losses in your affections and shattered ideals. If these qualities are not understood and properly directed through music, art, or other creative expression, you could become jealous and possessive of those close to you. Then there are extreme lows when you think the world is against you, and you become temperamental, hard to get along with, and inclined to express harsh words that you later regret. Tension in your body could affect your whole nervous system causing you to be high strung and to suffer with fits, strokes, apoplexy, or nervous disorders. Otherwise you suffer losses and shattered ideals.