Your first name of Alsander makes you a quick thinker, both philosophical and creative. Responsibilities and issues with people may cause you to lose yourself in unreality. You try to avoid confrontation and strive to resolve differences by diplomacy. You are aware of your need for love, affection, and sympathy, and your attraction to those whose strengths you can rely on. You enjoy reading and the beauties of nature, experiencing peace and relaxation in outdoor activities. To get what you want, at times you tend to use subtlety of meaning and rely on your way with words to influence others without their knowing. A very individual, independent person, you live within your own thoughts. Your friends never know whether they will find you friendly and charming or lost in introspection. You will go out of your way to help others, and find it difficult to say "no" and mean it. To rebuild your physical energies and peace of mind, you seek harmony out in nature.