Your name of Barcylay has made you good-natured, friendly, and kind. Home and family are important to you, and you could be a good parent because of your gentle, attentive ways. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. As you appreciate the pleasures of life, discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence, and ambition. However, you might not be quite firm enough with discipline because of the softer sensitive side to your nature. Your quickness of mind and considerate manner put others at ease as you turn aside contentious issues. Frequently you put off decisions and tasks until forced to take action. Others can, at times, take advantage of your gentle nature. You do not like strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing.