Your first name of Behader creates an idealistic, sensitive nature and a desire for culture and the refinements of life. There is much you would like to do, but procrastination often interferes with accomplishment. Since you lack self-confidence, you are reluctant to take steps to resolve matters of vital concern, even though you feel quite strongly about them. You appear calm to others, but at times you suffer inwardly with nervous tension. A lack of positivity and confidence is a source of difficulty in making decisions in business dealings. Although you are a kind person who desires association and friendship, you are really rather shy. Without support and approval from others, you find it difficult to make important decisions. You are not robust because your inner tension saps your vitality. The heart, lungs, or bronchial tubes could also be an area of potential weakness, with asthma, flu, or pleurisy ensuing. You want the best, but lack the confidence and aggressiveness to materialize your desires.