Your first name of Benben creates a serious, thoughtful nature, shrewd, efficient, and business-minded. It is sometimes challenging for you to listen to and understand the viewpoints of others because your opinions are strong, carefully thought out, and sensible. By nature you are serious, thoughtful, and studious. Determined and positive in opinion, you resist taking direction and advice from others. Situations requiring sympathy and understanding, or where compliments are expected, may make you feel awkward and embarrassed. You are one to make your own decisions, and not be influenced by others. You are not overly ambitious, preferring instead just to seek stable, settled conditions which are adequate to meet your responsibilities. You recognize the need, but feel a lack of fluency in verbal expression. A tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities could lead to a disturbed mental state. In your personal relations with others, you are inclined to be rather serious, and not to see the humour others see, or to respond spontaneously.