Your first name of Benjan gives you self-assurance, independence, and confidence. Even though you do not tolerate interference in your affairs, you are not shy about pointing out to others what they should do differently. A need for independence would have you wanting to branch out on your own at an early age to become master of your own destiny. Although your manner might conflict with others who are also strong-willed, you are seen as a leader and respected for your integrity and steadfast individuality. Although you are good natured and never intend offence, nevertheless your strong mindedness and candid manner of expression could put a strain on close relationships. Having the confidence and will power to follow through on your objectives does not give you a lot of understanding for those who are lacking in initiative. You love to challenge the concepts of others, developing your own ideas and pioneering new lines of thought. Those who know you best appreciate your loyalty and honesty. You have to be your own boss as it is most difficult for you to submit to direction from others. Also, there could be a tendency for your peace of mind to be disturbed because of worry.
