Your first name of Bennjaman makes you a quick thinker, both philosophical and creative. Self-consciousness may prevent you from feeling at ease in positions of impromptu expression. With acquaintances and strangers, you tend to be reticent and reserved. To get what you want, at times you tend to use subtlety of meaning and rely on your way with words to influence others without their knowing. You could be successful in creative, inspirational endeavours, such as music, art, drama, where you are encouraged and supported; however, any criticism no matter how impersonal can undermine your confidence and initiative. Desiring to be free from detail and monotony, you find it difficult to finish what you start if it does not hold your interest. Your friends never know whether they will find you friendly and charming or lost in introspection. Sensitive to vibrations and people, you desire conditions and associations that reflect refinement, harmony, and beauty. Others impose on your generosity at times. You will go out of your way to help others, and find it difficult to say "no" and mean it.