Your first name of Bossman makes you a quick thinker, both philosophical and creative. You are aware of your need for love, affection, and sympathy, and your attraction to those whose strengths you can rely on. Aggressive attitudes, harsh words, and friction between people make you uncomfortable and anxious. Sensitive to vibrations and people, you desire conditions and associations that reflect refinement, harmony, and beauty. To get what you want, at times you tend to use subtlety of meaning and rely on your way with words to influence others without their knowing. Self-consciousness may prevent you from feeling at ease in positions of impromptu expression. You try to avoid confrontation and strive to resolve differences by diplomacy. With acquaintances and strangers, you tend to be reticent and reserved. You will go out of your way to help others, and find it difficult to say "no" and mean it. Others impose on your generosity at times.