Your first name of Chalmar gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. Procrastination is a weakness as you are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. In your work, you would gravitate to positions in sales, teaching, or some field where you deal with people but are not required to initiate action. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. You dislike facing issues or witnessing hurt feelings. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, merging rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition.