Your first name of Harjay gives you a highly sensitive, idealistic, and intuitive nature. Yours is a quick mind and you can usually think of something to say when there is a need to offset or deflect an unpleasant situation, sometimes finding it necessary to stretch the truth a little in the process. Plenty of rest and relaxation is needed in order to handle responsibilities. You want very much for everyone to be happy and friendly. Being sensitive and idealistic, you thrive on encouragement and appreciation. This sensitivity contributes to your variable nature, and can lead to uncontrolled, disturbing thoughts. There are times in your life when others are apt to take advantage because you find it difficult to say "no" especially if your sympathies are appealed to. Since your life is people-oriented, you must hold confidences shared with you and guard your tongue against a tendency to gossip. Moods are a problem as you can be highly inspired one minute, and the next become quite irritated and annoyed over some ill-timed remark or lack of consideration on the part of someone close to you. In worst cases, nervous breakdowns and loss of memory could occur.