Your first name of Harmjan gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. You make friends easily but must guard against becoming involved in the affairs of others or being too easily led. Intuitive and impressionable, you are sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and responsive to affection and attention. Encouragement and assurance strengthen your resolve that you are making the best decisions. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, merging rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You have little resilience for handling tension or persevering in adverse circumstances. You find it difficult to be systematic in business and you dislike budgeting. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress.
