Your first name of Haslam gives you a highly sensitive, idealistic, and intuitive nature. You feel and sense much that you do not fully understand, and you can be deeply influenced through the thoughts of others without realizing just how you are being affected. You want very much for everyone to be happy and friendly. There may be a tendency to make impractical promises that satisfy the situation for the moment. Under stressful and intense situations, it is a challenge to maintain an even temperament as you are extreme in your feelings: optimistic and happy one moment, despondent and self-pitying the next. Since your life is people-oriented, you must hold confidences shared with you and guard your tongue against a tendency to gossip. You do not like to stand alone. If those around you are quarrelling, you try to create understanding between them. In worst cases, nervous breakdowns and loss of memory could occur. Others are inclined to take advantage of your generosity and friendliness and then, when there is a lack of reciprocation, you can feel despondent and disillusioned.