In personal relationships, it is hard for you to express the appreciation and compliments that mean so much to some people. Also, you are uncomfortable being the target for sentiment or flattery. You are more interested in being active and accomplishing the tasks you set for yourself. You are rather skeptical of new ideas that are more visionary, idealistic, or philosophical. You do not have great ambitions and your requirements in life are moderate. Your first name, Hayling, makes you independent, resourceful, practical, and patient. It is difficult for you to visualize or theorize unless the ideas being presented are developed in a logical step-by-step manner. Although you are not naturally spontaneous in musical or artistic expression, you can develop technical proficiency along these lines. Despite your loyalty to friends, your communication at times is stilted, too candid, and frank. You work best alone, making your own decisions, and learning from your own experiences.
