The name of Kourtni makes you very idealistic, sensitive, and inspirational. In reality, the emotional urges of this name are difficult to control. If these qualities are not understood and properly directed through music, art, or other creative expression, you could become jealous and possessive of those close to you. If you centre your whole world on that one person, not allowing freedom of thought or action, you could spoil happiness for yourself and that person. If you give to others and then sense your efforts are unappreciated or taken for granted, you could become resentful and self-pitying. The qualities of this name demand that you serve humanitarian needs rather than a possessive personal relationship with an individual. Your feelings are so strong that you are inclined to build your life around certain individuals and become wrapped up in personal love rather than seeking into the deeper truths of life; thus you could suffer losses in your affections and shattered ideals. There are extreme highs in your nature when you are inspired, optimistic, kind, understanding, generous, and charming. When you are inspired and feel happy, life seems so wonderful; but you can be just as depressed and unhappy as well, feeling as if everyone is against you. You lack system and order in your life and will often leave your own duties if someone calls upon you for assistance.