Your name of Laijia has made you good-natured, friendly, and kind. While your sensitive, idealistic nature has a positive side, you must be careful not to become too much of a dreamer. However, you might not be quite firm enough with discipline because of the softer sensitive side to your nature. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. You have good business judgment, and are practical and capable in handling responsibility. You tend to avoid issues, however, and put off until tomorrow decisions that should be made today. As you appreciate the pleasures of life, discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. However, you may worry over decisions concerning both yourself and others. Your inclination is to pursue a line of work where you carry some level of responsibility and diplomacy is required in contact with people. Others can, at times, take advantage of your gentle nature.