Your name of Nilayam has made you a kind, thoughtful, and sociable person. If those around you were quarrelling, you would want to try to be the mediator to create understanding between them. In turn, you need support from others since you do not like to stand alone. Unfortunately, people are apt to take advantage of you because you are too easygoing and hate to face issues. Controlling your desires is challenging because of your happy-go-lucky, carefree nature, and difficulty in practising restraint and discipline. You make friends easily as people are attracted to your warm and generous nature. Though you are enthusiastic initially, you tend to scatter your efforts; when it comes to handling the monotonous details, your interest wanes. Procrastination is your worst enemy as you are inclined to be dreamy and idealistic. You may not necessarily develop all of these problems, but with this name these are the areas where weaknesses could occur when poor eating and living habits exist. You are apt to leave a project unfinished and go on to something else.