The name of Phobus makes you very idealistic, sensitive, and inspirational. Although you would like the comforts of a high standard of living, impracticality in your financial affairs does not ensure material accumulation. If you centre your whole world on that one person, not allowing freedom of thought or action, you could spoil happiness for yourself and that person. There are extreme highs in your nature when you are inspired, optimistic, kind, understanding, generous, and charming. Your feelings are so strong that you are inclined to build your life around certain individuals and become wrapped up in personal love rather than seeking into the deeper truths of life; thus you could suffer losses in your affections and shattered ideals. In reality, the emotional urges of this name are difficult to control. You respond readily to appeals for assistance and can end up being unrealistic and over-generous, neglecting your own needs and those of your dependents. Then there are extreme lows when you think the world is against you, and you become temperamental, hard to get along with, and inclined to express harsh words that you later regret. When you are inspired and feel happy, life seems so wonderful; but you can be just as depressed and unhappy as well, feeling as if everyone is against you. Otherwise you suffer losses and shattered ideals.
