There are times in your life when others are apt to take advantage because you find it difficult to say "no" especially if your sympathies are appealed to. You want very much for everyone to be happy and friendly. As you often experience difficulty in making decisions, you tend to depend on others to give you support and confidence to follow through on your decisions. You do not like to stand alone. Your first name of Shantai gives you a highly sensitive, idealistic, and intuitive nature. Because you are intuitive and impressionable, at times even psychic, you are influenced by your surroundings and the thoughts and feelings of others, including their suffering. Fashionable clothes and refined surroundings would add to your poise and self-assurance. You feel and sense much that you do not fully understand, and you can be deeply influenced through the thoughts of others without realizing just how you are being affected. In worst cases, nervous breakdowns and loss of memory could occur. You could experience physical problems in the fluid functions that would appear as kidney, bladder, or prostate disorders, or as poor circulation in the bloodstream or lymphatic system.
